We got our Enterprise rental car and
drove straight through to Connecticut and got in around 2:00 AM.
Exert from an email to a very good
friend, summed up the week;
“Our boat is at Lady's
Island Marina. We got there last Sunday, but rented a car to head to
CT to be with my sister who was dealing with my mothers recent
medical issues. My mother who was alert and conversational the first
day we were there was in rapid decline and was under hospice care her
last few days. She passed away peacefully Friday morning. She was in
control to the end. She wanted no invasive procedures, she had
developed anemia and just wanted to let go. She was 94 and had a life
well lived and had an alert mind until her last few days, arguing and
joking with the medical staff. Was still telling Linda what furniture
of hers to keep and what furniture of ours to get rid of. No one ever
had to wonder what was on my mother's mind.”
“We just had another friend about our
age who died of cancer last week. Carol who was an avid sailor and
Internet geek, so we were in constant touch, she was acting as our
weather router until a couple weeks ago. Our mutual friends told me
to stay up with the blog, because she checked it every day,
even though we emailed constantly, as I did with my mother. One
of these days I am going to hit one of those green or red ICW pole
marks, while on autopilot, tapping out emails. I have had a few near
hits.”
“We are now heading back to Lady's
Island Marina this afternoon” (Saturday, November 21).
In the evening we go to Outback Steak
House, one of my mother's favorite places for dinner.
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